Woman Refuses to Attend Her Sister’s Wedding to a ‘Complete Stranger’

One woman isn’t too keen on attending her sister’s upcoming courthouse wedding. 

The woman revealed in a recent post on Reddit’s “Am I the A——?” forum, that her sister is getting ready to walk down the aisle, but she doesn’t agree with the couple’s decision to tie the knot.

The 26-year-old woman, under the username Valuable-Response992, explained that her 33-year-old sister texted her asking her to take off a day work in early March, and when the original poster asked why, her sister replied: “‘I’m getting married.’” 

The woman added that “ever since birth,” her sister has been a “serial dater.” Noting, “Almost every time I see her she has a new boyfriend… she hasn’t introduced me to anyone recently so seeing this text is quite a shock.” 

As the younger sister continued, she revealed that the bride told her she “was dating a guy in a different state, but they just broke up.” Adding, “So if she is getting married, I’m 90% sure that it is probably going to be with a complete stranger.” 

The Reddit user admitted she doesn’t want “to be a part of it at all.” 

“I just started school, I’ve been working a lot, I really don’t want to support my sister’s dumb decisions,” she wrote. “Especially when I know that she hasn’t known this dude for long. At the end of the day I am just scared of her getting hurt or used.”

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Several Reddit users wrote in the forum telling the original poster, “You’re The A——.”

“YTA, take off a crappy day in March and celebrate your sister’s happy day, short-lived or not. She wants you there,” one wrote. Another added, “It’s about supporting the person not the decision.”

“YTA. Maybe it’s a mistake, maybe not. But it’s your sister’s mistake to make,” read another response.

Meanwhile, a couple of Reddit users responded in support of the original poster. “NAH. Let’s say it’s a bad decision. She gets to make a bad decision. She just asked you to be there, you politely declined. That’s ok,” wrote one user.